Guilt is what comes after. sometimes it comes to the person who was wrong/did something wrong, and other times [most times] it comes to the person who blamed the other.
Blame is something I do. Guilt is also something I do.
I hate myself for it. Because everytime I blame you for something, I secretly blame myself. When I don't feel guilty I don't need to throw the guilt away.
I used to think you are strong. I used to think you are my wing because I am weak... now you blame ME too?
I hate myself for blaming anyone, but I hate YOU more, for blaming me.